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Christmas in Iraq

January 7, 2005 | 9:35 a.m. CST

I received an e-mail about a week ago from Darci who is a friend of Julie and I that contained an attachment from her husband Dave. Dave was recently sent to Iraq about a couple of months ago, the day after his son's birth. The attachment contained a letter from Dave about how things are going for him over in Iraq. I was moved by his letter and thought I would ask Darci to ask Dave if I could share the letter on my website. She asked Dave and he said that I could.

I don't know about the rest of you but it sure makes the war more real when it affects someone you know. Please pray for Dave and his family as well as the rest of the troop's severing over in Iraq and Afghanistan. Also please feel free to leave your comments and words of encouragement and appreciation to Dave and his Family!


Dave's Christmas / New Year's Letter

For beginners, I would like to thank so many of you for all the prayers for Darci and me and all the letters/goodies I have received from everyone. The kindness and generosity expressed by all of you has truly uplifted me, especially during this holiday season. Add in all the help that many of you have given Darci in her "new" single mother role, and we have a lot to be thankful for.

Nearly everyone is wanting to know the who, what's, and when's about where I'm at and what I'm doing. I was slotted to be a Host Nation Supply and Service Officer. As defined, it would have been my job to purchase all the stuff our subordinate units need which are not available through the Army supply system. However, there is no Host Nation mission in Iraq yet, since we really don't control anything outside of our little bases.

I am stationed at a place called Al Asad, and very fortunate to be here. Al Asad was the premier Iraqi Air Force base during the 1980's. The hard stand buildings, bunkers, and runways were all built by the Yugoslavians and are of good quality, along with the Olympic size swimming pool (used to store base water now), indoor pool, coliseum, and theatre. Taking this base (the Australians captured initially) intact was of importance because it has the second longest runway in Iraq . The base is about 120 miles WNW of Fallujah about 10 miles south of the Euphrates . It is currently garrisoned by about 8000 Marines and 1000 Army folks. As a matter of fact, we were the first Army unit to arrive here during the first week of November. The Marines were very leery of us being here at first, but many now realize that when the Army comes in, base improvements come too. Every Marine will tell you that they are an expeditionary force (meaning their mission is to kill bad guys), not an occupation force (meaning they care very little about how they live). That, coupled with the fact that Marines are only here in 6-7 month increments, meant that very little infrastructure development was happening here. I am tasked here as the Project Manager for the development of a GS hub (big warehouse) that will take up 117 acres with its yard and container area's. Basically, the Army wants to support the Western (Anbar province) part of Iraq from Al Asad. Currently, the base is getting the bulk of their supplies from Balad, which was/is the central hub in Iraq for all supplies. The convoys coming from Balad must pass Fallujah and Ramadi to get here, and are hit frequently. To make a long story short, it has been decided to support the entire Anbar province with convoys coming from Jordan to here, which is a much safer route and getting our soldiers off the Fallujah/Ramadi road. Below is the view looking out our office, and a very normal view for around here. Not much for playing golf.

Our living conditions are currently a little less than ideal. Most soldiers in Iraq are living in containerized housing, which is basically a forty foot trailer shell with a wall divider(s) splitting the container into two/three sections. Then based on rank, they stick one or two people into each living area. Needless to say, I can only dream about having the 10' X 20' living area I should. I'm on what I like to call the plywood plan, as a common sheet is 4' X 8'. Basically, until our containerized housing units come, there are 55 of us (all E-8 and above) living in a 60 man tent. This is a view from one of the corners. How you get 5 more guys in, I don't know? I live on the left hand side of the tent next to the heating/AC unit about half way down the length of the tent. As a matter of fact, you can see my rifle leaning up against it.

The weather through the first two month's has been similar to what we would be having at home, although now it is surely warmer, with the average's now being 40L/60H.

In my free time, I'm playing on the unit basketball team and singing with the Al Asad choir (who knew? ...actually they don't kick anybody off). We are the only Army basketball team on post, and are 3-2 currently. Needless to say, the Marines sure don't like losing to a bunch of Army Reservist. The softball league kicks up here in February (can you believe that?), so I'm looking forward to that very enthusiastically. Most of the Marines are so young (or I'm getting old), and I can't wait to nail a ball down the third base line to some whipper-snapper. Of course I'm sure I'll be pitching, so they'll be trying to kill the old man.

Our office on the other hand is much better. They stuck 7 of us in here, but we are in and out so often that there are never more than a few of us in here at any one time. As you can guess from the decorations, 3 of the 7 in the office happen to be women.

I hope this have given you all some insight as to the 5 W's about what's going on in my world. I sure miss spending the time with both the families this time of year. Thanksgiving didn't hit me as hard as Christmas (BTW- I'm finishing this up Christmas Day in the office), and anticipate this being a huge "hump" to get over during my year here. I really don't know what to expect for this country/Al Asad during the next year, or have any idea what God's plan is.

At Al Asad we don't get any local people to come onto base to work. At most camps, the government is paying $5-10 a day for general laborers, with as many as 1000 a day coming at places at Anaconda/Balad, where they have a full size movie theatre, are currently planting grass along the side of the roads, and have painted the curbs. At Al Asad, the insurgents/intimidators/local thugs have threatened/killed enough people that no one comes out here. There is a little town (5,000 people) called Baghdadi about 5 km off post on the Euphrates , but I have yet to see a worker. It's so bad outside our gates that there are 4 gravel quarries within 10 km of this base, but the owners will not sell anything (to include the whole quarry) to us because their/or their families lives have been threatened. As a result, our only current alternative for us is to truck gravel in from Jordan (220 miles), but that goes against our whole purpose of being here, which is to get soldiers off the roads.

Now don't get excited that I'm in a hot spot, because I'm not. Remember the 8000 Marines? Yeah, they have itchy trigger fingers, attack aircraft and helicopters, an easily defendable perimeter, and would never trust an Army guy for their security. OK by me J . They have actually tried to mortar us a couple of times from the local highway, but can't get the mortars into the base. They land on that big ridge you see in the first picture. Then it's a race across a barren landscape on a fairly abandoned highway against a Super Cobra or F/A-18, not usually won by a Mitsubishi pick up truck.

I can't wait to get back and be reunited with everyone into reality. I think of home often, and am thankful everyday for all the support I've gotten from family and friends. I can only hope that every soldier over here has all the personal support y'all have given to me. May this holiday season remind us that we are just all part of some big picture, unbeknownst to us, and that we wouldn't be in situations if God didn't think we'd pull through.

And no... I'm not losing weight over here. And Yes, that shelf behind me is now FULL of food.

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Comments

noreenfry
1.   At 11:01 a.m. CST on Jan. 8, 2005, noreenfry wrote:

I am so glad to hear news from a Christian soldier who is in Iraq. Thanks, add me to those already praying for you.

Mary Jones
2.   At 10:35 a.m. CST on Feb. 2, 2005, Mary Jones wrote:

My husband is currently stationed in Iraq. It's ironic because stating that is almost like dropping a heavy bomb in a room. People kind of breathe in really heavy, and they don't know what to say. In comes the mixture of, "We feel so sorry for you" and "We're so proud of all that our soldiers are doing." I must admit that some days are much harder than others. From the woman's perspective, it is often challenging being proud, strong, and supportive, when you're terrified.

Mike left for Iraq back in June when I was three weeks pregnant. He left three days after we found out we were pregnant. To be having a baby minus the other half of the equation (the fella that helped put it there) was very scary for me. Mike did the best he could to reassure me and tell me everything would be all right. But all of a sudden, all of the comfort and peace I felt about him going back to Iraq washed away and I began to feel paranoid. Was God going to let my husband die and leave me all alone with a newborn? What would I do if he passed away?

I suppose I should explain why these fears arose. My husband is a tanker in a combat unit. That means that when his unit goes to Iraq, they are going to fight bad guys. They walk around (Iike you see on tv) with all kinds of gear on and big guns looking to see who's going to shoot at them. And other times, they drive around, in big tanks attempting to create order. Mike says the presence of a tank generally keeps the insurgents from messing around. Apparently, tanks are quite powerful!

Mike is stationed in Sadr City, which if you look on a map, does not exist. That's because it used to be called Saddam City, and was renamed by Al Sadr. I don't know what it is with Iraqi's and naming their cities after bad guys who terrorize them, but nobody asked me. Sadr City is a relatively peaceful place. I say peaceful, in comparison to Fallujah. The insurgants drop mortar rounds on Camp Cuervo (the fort the army set up in Sadr City) every day. My husband finds it funny to tell me about the "many times" that mortar rounds have flown by his head only inches from hitting him. And then he follows that up with, "But don't worry about me, I'm fine!"

There have been many hardships during this deployement. One of the hardest was when we recieved news that Yoe Aneiros, one of my husband's best friends, was killed by a rocket grenade that when inside the tank and hit him in the head. He died instantly. It was strange when my husband called me about it, because I had seen a report on the news where a bunch of guys were taking someone out of a tank on a stretcher and I thought how much it looked like Yoe. Yoe was the 1000th soldier killed in Iraq. His wife, Alexandra, and I were also good friends. My heart broke for her agony. We cried together and were so sad. Yoe died on his 20th birthday. Lexy is only 19, and already a widow.

Death is so awful to deal with within a unit. It reminds all of us wives, who work so hard to convince ourselves that they're just fine, that our husbands are in a dangerous place doing a dangerous job. I must admit that every day that my husband does not call, my heart gets very nervous and I start to expect bad news. It is every soldier's wife's nightmare that the boys in green will come and knock on your door to tell you that you will never see your husband alive again. It is a treachury that we deal with on a daily basis.

I am so proud of all that my husband has accomplished. When the elections went so well on Sunday, I have to admit I felt a somewhat feeling of "in your face" to all of the liberal media that have made our soldiers look like flakes, and torturers. I felt proud because my husband contributed to that.

Our soldiers know when people are praying for them. I can not stress that enough. I know it is so easy to get into a daily grind and forget about what's going on over there. Not only are our soldiers dealing with the physical danger, but also tremendous emotional stress. It is extremely difficult for them to be separated from their families. It is hard to hear about "family" activities through the phone, and to know that memories are being formed without them. It is hard for the wives as well. Our husband's are experiencing things that we will never understand, nor be able to relate to. God is SO important during the midst of all of this. I must admit that my faith in God has been all that has sustained me. Jesus holds the life of my husband in His more than capable hand, and that gives me peace.

Please continue to pray for our soldiers. As a wife, I am so grateful for everyone's support and prayers. To know that so many people pray and care for our soldiers gives me so much comfort.

Brent O'Connor
3.   At 8:47 a.m. CST on Feb. 4, 2005, Brent O'Connor wrote:

Mary,

Even though I know you personally, I'm not sure if I will ever really grasp what it is like for you and Darci (Dave's wife). I'm always amazed at how together you seem at Bible study and I know that your faith in God has helped you get through this and you are a true example of who Christ is. Julie and I pray for you and will continue to pray for both or you and your husbands.

I don't really know what to say, except thank you for telling your story. I think it's good for others to hear about what it's like for the wives who are left behind.

dawn
4.   At 12:27 a.m. CDT on June 5, 2005, dawn wrote:

hey my husband is there working as a fork lift operator, His name is chuck. Just wondering if you might know him.... I get on the internet and look up pics from over there since I cannot be there with him I might as well see what it looks like there..

Brent O'Connor
5.   At 2:01 a.m. CDT on June 5, 2005, Brent O'Connor wrote:

Dawn,

I don't know him but I know some women that have husbands over there and I will pass this on to them and see if they might know him.

Jones family
6.   At 9:07 a.m. CDT on June 5, 2005, Jones family wrote:

what unit is he with?

Ann
7.   At 3:33 p.m. CST on Dec. 13, 2005, Ann wrote:

Hi: I am a newspaper reporter doing a story on what it's like over there this Christmas. I wonder if you are still over there or could hook me up with someone who is to email with? thanks Ann aschwartz@aitkinage.com

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